Everyone gets a bit stressed and anxious at High School.
It’s normal when you experience so many new challenges and changes.
Sometimes, a little pressure can be good. It gets you going and helps you to get things done. Too much can have the opposite effect and you may become so anxious that you feel really bad and you can’t get anything done at all.
You will know when you are beyond feeling the pressure and feeling ‘stressed out’ when your moods and behaviours change.
When you are very stressed you might even feel sick, your stomach may churn, you may need the toilet urgently and your heart is likely to beat a lot faster than normal.
These are physical reactions to what your mind interprets as danger, symptoms that humans have experienced since they lived in caves. When it senses danger your body produces a hormone called ‘adrenaline’ and pumps more blood as well as oxygen and sugar to your muscles, giving you extra energy to deal with the danger. It would have helped your caveman ancestors to fight another tribe or run away from a tiger, but we still get the same symptoms when we are suffering from exam nerves!
There are a lot of different things that cause stress, things that are difficult or challenge our abilities like exams or emotional things that happen in families and other relationships.